Waiting for the son
For almost five months, Phagu Dhami Tharu, 72, has been desperately waiting for his son’s body to return. Phagu has pleaded with Nepal’s local and federal government officials to bring his son’s body back from Saudi.
But his wait continues.
“I want to see my son one last time,” a grieving Phagu says. Despite his age, he travelled to Kathmandu from the southern Bara district, to make a request to the director at the FEB. “I know I won’t see him alive, but please help; I can’t leave him abandoned there.”
But director Din Bandhu Subedi says, swiftly, he “cannot do anything” as the case is under investigation.
Phagu’s elder son Kishor Kumar Dhami used to work as a tile fixer in Tabuk, in northwestern Saudi. The 40-year-old was the father of five daughters and the sole income earner of a family of 14. In September 2021, Kishor Kumar was found hanging in a room at the labour camp. It is not clear whether it was a suicide or a murder. But just a day before his death, he called his wife, Surya Devi, and said he would be coming home in two weeks. The next day, she learned about her husband’s death from another Nepali migrant worker in Saudi.
While Surya and other family members are restless in their hometown, Phagu is wandering the streets of Kathmandu, a blue mask on his wrinkled chin, pleading with officials to bring back the remains of his son.
“Do you know, what is the situation of my son’s body?” Phagu asks the Board director.
“Don’t worry; the body must be preserved in ice,” Din Bandhu replies in earnest.
Kishor Kumar’s family wants a proper investigation into the death and to seek compensation, but now, their priority is to bring his body back.
“The case is being investigated by the Saudi police, so we don’t know when we can repatriate,” Din Bandhu explains to Phagu. “The process for compensation will begin then.”
Phagu still has a little hope to see his son, albeit dead, but he worries about his granddaughters. “How can she [Kishor’s wife] raise those kids alone? How can she conduct her daughters’ wedding – you know well, we have to give dowry for each, and we don’t have money,” he says.
The story of Phagu’s family is tragically common in Nepal, where one-third of GDP comes from remittances.
The process of repatriation is much longer in Saudi than in other countries, prolonging pains in the family. “In the case of natural deaths, it takes around a month,” Din Bandhu says, “but it takes even longer in the cases of suicide, murder, and accident because it requires thorough investigation.”
According to Bandhu, obtaining clearance letters from Saudi police, labour court, and the hiring company is often a protracted process. The Nepali embassy cannot issue a no-objection certificate (NOC) to repatriate remains unless all clearances are made.
“FEB, the embassy in Riyadh and consulate office in Jeddah coordinate to provide services for workers to rescue and repatriate, but it’s still challenging to do it quickly because of an overwhelming number of deaths in such a big country,” he added.
There are about 400,000 Nepalis in Saudi Arabia, dispersed across the country. And two-third of the workers work in the so-called unskilled sectors such as cleaning, laundry, labour, loading, packaging, shipping, etc. Driving and machine operating is the second primary occupation constituting 13% of the Nepali workforce in the Kingdom, followed by service and sales industry at 9%, according to the 2020 Labor Migration Report.
“Problems are prevalent in every sector, but the worst of it is in service, hospitality, and construction sectors,” says Rameshwar Nepal. “The situation of domestic workers could be worse too, but we cannot say it definitively as we have limited access and resources.” Nepal has banned domestic worker deployment to Saudi since 2017, but many workers still travel through undocumented routes.
Amid the rising complaints from workers in distress, the consulate general in Jeddah had reportedly identified vulnerable labour camps with a high incidence of casualties and deaths. Neither the embassy in Riyadh nor the consulate in Jeddah provided the information about those camps and their locations to MR.
But FEB executive director Rajan says that he has received more reports of deaths, injuries, and other work-related cases from Riyadh, Jeddah, and Dammam. “Probably because there are more workers, especially in construction,” he added.
Yam Bahadur has not received any compensation after his son’s death from the company yet. When he talked to the company representative and Nepali embassy in Riyadh, they did not give a clear answer.
Struggles of the stranded
For more than six months, Sagar BK, 29, has been trying to return to Nepal from Dammam, Saudi Arabia. But he does not have his passport with him. Nearly five years ago, when he went to Saudi for the first time, he handed over his passport to the sponsor (kafeel). “Now I want to return home, but my employer won’t give the passport back,” says Sagar from Dammam. “And my iqama [residence permit] has not been renewed for the last three years.” Nor is his employer willing to give him an exit permit. Technically, an employer-issued exit permit is no longer required, - Opens in new tab however, processes to exit the country still depend on the employer not interfering with the request.
According to his employment contract, he was hired by the Saud Al Falah Al-Sahli Transport Est. as a truck driver, and his salary is SR2,000. But he had been receiving only SR 1,200, which the company also stopped paying three months ago. Sagar had gone to Saudi through New World Overseas Service Pvt. Ltd. in Kathmandu.
“I am helpless; I don’t have money; I haven’t got my salary for three months,” he says. “I have begged for help from many people but to no avail.”
In Nepal, his wife Basanti is also desperately seeking help for him. She visited the Chitwan district office of the Safer Migration Project (SaMi) – a bilateral initiative between the government of Nepal and Switzerland which provides support for migrant workers.
But Sagar is still stuck in Saudi. His colleagues Krishna Bishwokarma and Dipendra BK have been stranded, too. They have been staying in a parking lot in Dammam for a few days, waiting for help.
When Sagar left home, his son was just one and a half years old. Now he is six and repeatedly asks where his dad is and when he can meet him. Please help him return,” Basanti pleads. “My son and I want to meet him.”
Sagar and his colleagues have already requested the Nepali embassy for help. “But the embassy suggested we reach out to the labour office in Khafji,” says Krishna. “We went there too, but, that didn’t work either.”
The Nepali Embassy in Riyadh did not reply to MRRORS.org’s inquiries about these workers’ issues.
Nepali workers in the Kingdom have been subject to a range of human and labour rights violations such as passport confiscation, wage theft, expired iqamas, forceful terminations, squalid working conditions, contract substitutions, according to SaMi officials.
“Violations and abuses among Nepali migrant workers in Saudi are not new,” says Nabin Shishir BK, a counsellor at the Migration Resource Center of the Safer Migration Project, Nepal. “But it looks like the situation has been exacerbated with the Covid-19 pandemic. Because we have got more complaints of forced labour, nonpayment, deduction in wages in recent months.”
Rameshwar agrees. “Workers’ troubles compounded as some employers have taken the pandemic as an opportunity to exploit the labourers,” he says.
In March 2021, Saudi announced reforms to the Kafala system, which allowed migrant workers to change jobs without their employer’s consent after one year of employment, expiry of their contract, or under other limited conditions.
However, the reports of abuse of workers under the kafala system continue, says Rameshwar. “It could have done better to some workers at individual levels, but the situation largely remains the same.”
Another challenge is the lack of bilateral agreement between Nepal and Saudi Arabia, according to the FEB executive director Rajan. “Nepali workers’ issues must be addressed at the government level. Efforts have been made to do the agreement, but I don’t know why it’s delayed.”
Despite the myriad challenges in the destination, low-income and unemployed Nepali workers are compelled to work abroad. Dipak Sinjali’s dad Yam Bahadur, 48, had seen his son’s “untimely” death in Jizan. He remembers how horrifying it was to see his only son’s sudden death at age 27. “I came home with his dead body. “Honestly, I don’t want to go back,” he said. “But what would I do stay here? I have no job. I have no other source of income.”
Yam Bahadur has not received any compensation from the company for his son’s death. He says neither the company representative nor the Nepali embassy in Riyadh has given him a clear answer yet.
Two months after his son’s demise, Yam Bahadur decided to fly to Saudi again, where he worked as a shepherd. “I already spent 14 years in the desert with sheep and goats. I don’t know how many years I will have to stay there. Because I have a debt of NPR1,200,000. And now, I am the one to pay it back,” he says.